Resolved: 7. The Best Conversation Ever

Best Conversation EverThis post is part of the Resolved series: a collection of 21 personal resolutions that I’m writing/preaching to myself.

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Resolution #7

Resolved, to maintain an open conversation with God about what’s going on within my heart and mind.

What and Why?

Here’s where I explain what I mean and why it matters.

An Open Dialogue

In close connection with constant prayer, I want to keep an open exchange going on between me and God. Yes, this means communicating with Him throughout the day. For it to be a great conversation, however, I’ve got to take the time to listen and hear what He’s saying to me.

There’s a beautiful lyric in Addison Road’s song ‘What Do I Know of Holy,‘ that nails it:

“I try to hear from Heaven, but I talk the whole time.”

What’s Going On In My Heart

To be honest, a lot of times I have no idea what’s going on in my heart. I’m anxious, angry, unsettled, or nervous about who knows what. Well, I want to talk to God about openly and honestly that. I’m always amazed at just how revealing those conversations can be.

For example, I was recently having a really bad day. To say I was grumpy would be an understatement. I talked it out with God and in the course of that conversation, the Holy Spirit brought it to my attention that I was completely wrapped up in a business situation that I had been working through.

I found the source of my anxiety in my lack of control/trust. He gave me the opportunity to recognize that lacking in faith. In that moment, God gave me the opportunity to turn and run back to Him. My day got a whole lot better after that.

What’s Going On In My Mind

I think too much. Because I think too much, I tend to rely on my own understanding a lot more than I should. Questioning my thoughts in an open dialogue with God is the best way to root out my own intellectual shmuckery. It also leads me to rely on Him; not myself.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” Proverbs 3:5 ESV

How and When?

Here’s where I look at ways to practically apply this resolution to my life.

  1. Intentionally schedule more time to allow for moments of quiet and stillness. Like I mentioned above, I can talk all day long but its more important that I stop and listen.
  2. Pay close attention to my mental, emotional, and spiritual condition. When I feel a little off, I need to stop in my tracks and work through this process.

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  • Martina

    Kenny, I think you are correct about the thinking. Too often we think too much, and other times not enough.

    The open dialogue you speak of, I think, ties in with praying ceaselessly, and when possible in a quiet environment. No, we are not sure of what is going on in our hearts, because not only do we not take the time to listen to and HEAR God, but we do not take the time to listen to ourselves.

    We live in a world that is filled with busy-ness and distraction. We have to make a conscious effort to turn all that off periodically.

    Good post, enjoying the series.

    • http://kennysilva.net Kenny Silva

      Great thoughts, Martina. Thank you for sharing.

  • Candace

    Resolution #7 is so key Kenny. Conversation! Conversation!

    Can u imagine how we wd feel if we went without conversation with friends, with family, even everyday small talk..anything? God waits for our conversation.

    Psalms was long & many conversations; no wonder David was a man after God’s own heart:)

    • http://kennysilva.net Kenny Silva

      Thanks, Candace. What I love about the Psalms is how open and honest they really are. In one, David will be praising God for His obvious blessing. In others, he’ll be pouring himself out in despair of God’s apparent distance. Great model for how we can approach God.